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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:well ive known this guy for 2.5 years and we're best friends. we both know each other through drumline and we've become really good friends. we talk all the time, at school and over text. we talk about everything. we were talking one night and he admitted he had feelings for me and i have feelings for him also. the only problem... he has a girlfriend. they've been dating for three years. he loves both of us and i don't want to come between them but i think i'm in love with him. what do i do??
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reader, LOML +, writes (26 May 2009):
 If he's still in love with his girlfriend of 3 years why would you wanna mess that up?
Ask him if he's thinking about taking the next step to be with you and leaving his GF to be with you before you end up hurt or hurting someone else....
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): I know you have strong feeling for this guy but please dont act on any impulse.
Firstly I think it would be many a mans fantasy to have 2 women at his beck and call but dont let him take advantage of you by starting some kind of affair. You will never be happy in this kind of situation.
Tell him to make a choice, give him a few days or so. If he cant make a choice this means he cant really love you the way you want him to because he cant devote himself totally to you.
i would steer 100% clear of this situation personally because i think you will only come out getting hurt.
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