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writes:I am a married woman. I am quite quiet in my job. I say hi to everyone but i am not that communicative. I used to be very friendly, but was wrong judge specially from men, so I have changed my behave on jobs. Well, there is a man with whom I have to talk from time to time about work related things. He tried to evade me before, but right know he is being cooperative with me. My supervisor is very closed to him and I know she told him to help me. But I am confused in the way he does. If I say something he smile and make a sound. He put his hand on my shoulder or my back all the time. And he appears where I am when I dont expected it. I am aware of what my supervisor told him, but why he have to be making those sounds and laugh or smile at whatever I say. The other day he was staring at me and quicky change his head when I observed it. The thing is that I dont see him being smiling, laughing like that or at least touching other women when he talked to them. That kind of treatment disconcert me because I dont know which are the real intentions of this person.He was never around when I leave and the other day he accompanied me to the door when I was leaving the job. The next day he left early so I didnt see him. Lets see his reactions next time.Anyway, I want to know what they think about this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Gina. As I see you always have the best advice. I nnow think that is his intention of helping me. It doesnt bother me anyway, so I am not going to ask him unless his hand move to another place..(kidding).
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