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writes:Hi, Im 15, and i met a girl on the internet who is 19. Ive been talking to her seriously about us and she asked if we wanted to meet up and to have sex. I said yes, shes attracted to me im attracted to her. We have shown eachother our parts on webcam. I really want to have sex with her. My question is, do you think it is a good idea for us to do this, i am worried about her having aids or she being not who she said she is. Thanks, Ben
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reader, ogxtina  +, writes (21 July 2009):
I know where you're coming from, and I'm kind of in a same situation as you. My online boyfriend is 19 and I'm 17, illegal to do any sexual activities, so we're planning on meeting soon, and wait til I'm 18.
It's illegal, don't do it. She's too old for you.
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reader, DLover  +, writes (11 July 2009):
1) Meet in a public place for security.
2) If he is what he says he is, go to a hotel or to your home, but not his (security again)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): ok in this situation age is just a number its only a four year split
I could understand if she was like 25 or something. I know a lot of people who
Are married with that kind of age difference. Now as far as. Sex
You should def. Meet in a public place like thw mall or something
Maybe do this a couple of times then if you wanna take it further then its up to
You. Just be safe bro....
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reader, dddddddd  +, writes (9 July 2009):
At 15 you shouldn't be meeting up with a stranger like that. When you are an adult then fine, go for it, but at 15 it is too risky.
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reader, Dr T  +, writes (8 July 2009):
Be careful Bro. Recent stats tell us that 1 in 8 American couples met online. What these stats dont reflect is the amount of nutters in cyberspace. I know it must be exciting and intriguing to think about meeting this older girl but let the big head do some thinking for a while. She could be anyone, could be a bloke! If you do decide to meet ensure that the first meeting is in a very public place in daytime. If she is the real deal and fancies you then the rest is up to you, if not at least you can walk away with a valuable lesson learned. A lot of people have mentioned that as a minor it is illegal for her to have sex with you. That is true, but if you do decide to just be very careful mate.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (8 July 2009):
 i wouldn't go there i mean you've shown your parts on cam?
that's odd for a 19 year old!
i';m 20 and i wouldn't do that with a 16 year old it's the same age difference between you and her as it would be me and one of my friends brothers or cousins.
i wouldn't do that and for a girl to ask you for sex is a bit dodgey.
i mean you do want to be careful i'd not go for it you're underage to have sex anyways and she could have diseases you're right and what if she got pregnant?
you'd be a daddy at 15?
i don't think you'll be wanting that.
THINK carefully about this and do the right thing.
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 July 2009):
 Showing your "parts" to an adult via a webcam is also against the law.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): Who knows. Its your decision and if you like her enough then its your choice whether to risk it or not. Good luck
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reader, possum +, writes (8 July 2009):
Agree with the others, she is too old at 19 and should know better.Also, very strange behaviour for a 19 yr old to be interested in 15yr olds!
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