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writes:MOD NOTE: Poster is asking for HELPFUL advice...Not to be BASHED. Aunts please answer according!i need some real help and not judgment plz! ok so i don't really know where to start...its a long story so a few years ago i fell in love with my 1st cousin we started hanging real close i was 21 him 23 and one night his mother( my aunt) was on vacation and we had sex he made the 1st move and i didn't stop him, we kept having sex it got to the point where i moved in with him and my aunt and we slept together every night i moved out after 3 months but we kept messing around for a year then my cousin went to jail, i let it be and didn't try 2 contact him bc i knew it was wrong well....he is out of jail and i recently ran into him which was very uncomfortable and ended up chillen with him and he said he wants to be with me again as in having sex i mean asking me was i still in love with him bc he loves me and has been thinking about me we have kissed and stuff but not had sex really bc we have no where to go....my feelings for him are i love him as more than a cousin and wouldn't mind at one point he talked about getting married but i don;t know if he is tellin the truth or playin mind games bc he lies, there is alot more i wish i could say but my question is do i start back having sex with him and how do i say no where he backs off when i don;t wanna say no? make any sense?
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 If you don't feel like he is having sex with your for the right reasons (like he loves you) then I think you should stop having sex with him until you get that issue resolved.
You say he lies.. did you catch him in a lie? Did he lie to you? What's the issue there? You seem like you're in love but from what you're saying he doesn't seem like he's in love with you.. is that the case?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 July 2009):
 It used to be the norm that you married someone as closely related as possible ( so the land stayed in the family and so forth) but, the probability of defects in children, in breeding is higher and therefor is was outlawed in many countries and states.
Depending on where you live, marriage might be out of the question.
Do you really see a future with him? Or is it the excitement of doing something "forbidden" that is egging you on?
Your mothers don't have a problem with this at all?
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