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*azednconfused90
writes: So due to some recent money issues me and my boyfriend have been living seperately, me staying with my mother, him with his sister some of the time...the other part of the time with his guy friend down the street. Well I kinda have some slight trust issues that I have been working on with him because he did cheat on me once before, so I like to go through his phone sometime and on his myspace sometimes, because I figure if he has nothing to hide from me then why not let me look. Well I got on there today and he was sending some girl a message saying something about what was she up too and calling her sexy. I really dont like that he did that, I dunno weather it would be fair for me to say not to talk to her again or just not to let me see messages like that again. I think it is rude and disrespectful to me because I am about to have his baby in a few more weeks inless she decides to come early, and I mean its not like I tell him he cant talk to anyone or keep him from having female friends while on the other hand he flips over me having any male friends. So should I call him out on this or no?
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (9 July 2009):
Call him out on it. But I have to say, the cheating, the snooping and the controlling (not letting you have any male friends) are all bad signs. I am concerned that you two have fast forwarded this relationship and that it will be even more stressful once the child arrives. You haven't even hit that rocky 18 month period yet. I would prepare myself for everything at this point, just in case you do end up breaking up over this.
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reader, dazednconfused90 +, writes (8 July 2009):
dazednconfused90 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe have been together a little over a yr.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (8 July 2009):
How long have you been together?
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (8 July 2009):
Call him out on it. He's acting very immature, and obviously he thinks that other guys are like
him, which is why he is trying to keep you away from them.
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