A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend say things to me and turn me against myself. I am good person, I know it. Last night I try to speak with him and tell him that I hate me because of him and was crying and he told me to be quiet and stop making a show.I don't know what to do. I try to leave before and he becomes sweet and makes me stay because I love him. I tell him he say things that are not love. I say this weekend that he deserve to be with someone to make him happy and I don't. He say okay. We come back to our apartment and I was crying and he say I can't leave him because he loves me.Why do men do this? I don't know what love is anymore. Thoughts would help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (8 July 2009):
Please free yourself from this man. Remember that he's only sweet when you want to leave, and sour and nasty every other time. Remember you deserve to be loved and respected, not to be put down and hurt. You deserve the best out of life, not someone who verbally abuses you and makes you confused.
Good luck. Please keep us posted.
A
male
reader, mister.m +, writes (8 July 2009):
Leave, and surprisingly pleasant things may happen.
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