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writes:I asked this question a few days ago and have an update and I need help:"I've been dating this guy now for over 3 months, not exclusively. sunday he told me I was "growing on him" I asked him what he meant and he said that in the begining it didnt really mean anything to him, cos he wasnt looking for anything (he'd just got out of a 3 and a half year relationship) but now im growing on him. We didn't speak the next day the day after he text me quite late at night, i text him back but he didn't reply. The day after he was on facebook so i said "hey" and he replied "helllo you oh no i aint text you back sorry" and he started having a conversation with me. That was wednesday and we haven't spoken since. For the past few weeks though he hasn't seemed to text me much, but this is the 1st time he forgot to reply. What really confuses me is that he said in the beginning it didnt mean anything to him, however he texted me alot more back then and seemed into me a lot more than he is now. I know only time will tell what's going on but I'd just like some opinions please??"He went on holiday on friday,I text him on saturday and he didn't reply and hasn't text me since.I want to know whether he's blowing me off? and what to do? Do I ask him if there's something wrong? Do I end things? or should I just wait and see if he texts me?Thank you for any help
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reader, Azula  +, writes (8 July 2009):
 All I can see is things are not that clear.Ask him what has been bothering him. I think it's his past relationship. The point of him saying that your growing on him is that you have developed a mutual understanding. And he is starting to have an emotion for you, specifically love, but I think he is still in the state of bargaining. Thinking if this is really is it or not or the other way. Trying to make sure if things will go right.Before making any big decisions, try to make him open to you.And set things straight.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (8 July 2009):
 he's probably seeing other girls or spending time with his mates as he's not exclusive to you.
you just have to wait & see if he gets in touch with u.
if he does get in touch ask him what he wants out of this relationship?
if u find its just a bit of fun,
u might want to end things, becoz the lack of texts, and days of not hearing anything will long continue.
good luck!
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