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36-40,
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writes:i need help i want to know if im wasting my time with this girl.alright here it goes, im 2 months out of a 4 year relationship and during my relationship i met this girl at my friends house during a party about 6 months ago, she is 1 month out of a 3 1/2 year relationship. how ever the last 8 months of that 3 1/2 years they were on and off every other day. and it has been 1 month since she told him she will not play his games any more... well after she and i got out of our relationshits she and i began to hang out with some other friends at my apt were we would play drinking games and watch movies, one night after every one left, she and i began to talk, and eventualy i leaned in for a kiss, to which i was met half way, well one thing turned into another and next thig you kno i hav her in my bedroom were she and i began to fool around. well she has come by and hung out a few times after that and on the 4th of july she had me go to her house and meet her mother.... im confused because i expresed the other night when i walked her to her car that id like to take her on a date sometime... she began to gigle in discomfort and then kissed me good by and drove off... i didnt realy talk to her besides a text to tell her im sorry if i freaked her out and she replied "no not at all"... well since then when i text or call her it is very short convos, and then we dont talk for a while. last night i asked her what she was uo to she said nothing and when i asked her if she wanted to hang out she said shed let me kno and then never called. completely blew me off, i want to kno if im wasting my time trying to get to kno this girl or if i blew any chances because she and i fooled around that one night... some one help im so confused and dont know weather i should continue to presue her or let it go....
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reader, Dr T  +, writes (8 July 2009):
Y'all are both on the rebound man. If you feel confused and uncomfortable at the, potential, start of a relationship its not a good foundation for things to develop. Lots of girls out there man, keep life simple. Much easier that way.
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