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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My close friend had an affair with another one of my friends husband. I was never told about the affair. My friend who's husband cheated on her thinks I knew and had something to do with it. What can I say or do to convince her that I relaly truly didn't know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): whether you knew or not , you need to cut this woman some slack. she is devastated by her hb's deceit and your common friends betrayal. she will be hellbent on finding out who knew, and hid the truth from her. this is her own coping mechanism right now.
did your "close friend" implicate you in her affair with the friends hb. maybe you were used as a go between. the possibilities are endless. you are placed in a difficillt position but you may have to choose sides. your close friend who has been f*cking this other friends hb or this betrayed wife. becareful of your "friendship" and who you are perceived as siding with. you may just be gulity of association. messy situation, affairs. even the innocent is drawn in.
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reader, Azula  +, writes (8 July 2009):
 Ohw... Because of the bad deeds of others your friendship is now at stakes. I can't tell some specific answers because I don't know that much information. But try to sort things out.
Try to ask her husband and your close friend to clear your name because that's the way things should be. Dear, you don't need to suffer from things you are nit included.
Don't be afraid to make a step if you know your making a right one.
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