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writes: im not sure how this whole sex thing goes im only 13. but any way heres the story and tell me what to do...okay so i have a guy friend hwo lives walking distance away. i text him sometimes and well go hang out at the sovial hall. so one time we were texting i might leave out some but..:him: whats upme: nm youhim: nothinghim: hey you should come up to my house sometime when none home.me: why when noones home.him: no reason. how far have you gone with a guy?me:...kissing...you?him: kissing. are you a virgin?me: what the hell are you writing a book?him: nahh i just wanna get you and my house for a good time.me: pev.him: your no fun.him: hello? thats our conversation basicly. this is the sick part once i said made it clea it was a no he went on to my friend. he is 14. i mean i wuldnt mind kissing him. but he told me he only kisses girls he dates so backwards right? the point is im to younge and dont wanna be pushed. and me an him are friends and since i said no he wont text me or anything. im so confused and i feel so used what should i do about this?
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reader, Dr T  +, writes (20 July 2009):
Obviously I dont know the guy but it seems to me that he isnt really what you would call a good friend. If you list the top 5 or 10 things you look for in someone you would like to call a good friend or the traits you would demonstrate to be called a good friend: how many of these is this chap exhibiting?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat about our friendship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks. he made me feel i made the wrong choice. ive already been through a depression it wasnt pretty the decision that i had 2 make was life altering to me anyway but my point is thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): As you stated he stopped texting you after you made it clear you weren't interested, so of course, he was only after a bit of fun. Just be glad that you stopped it NOW, and not whilst you two may have been doing something. By turning him down you didn't give him a chance to use you, so please feel happy and relieved you did the right thing. Oh, and warn any of your other friends in case he tries it on with them!
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reader, babymama99 +, writes (8 July 2009):
 You shoudn't feel used. You were firm in what you wanted and what you didn't want. I applaud you for that.
He showed his hand. if you had went over to his house there's no telling what would have happened. you were smart to sniff this out before hand. good for you!
Also: warn the friend - this guy is no good and out for only one thing.
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reader, Dr T +, writes (8 July 2009):
Good for you! You stood up for what you felt is the right thing to do. You should be proud of yourself. You have demonstrated a trait that many people a lot older than you have difficulty developing.Please don't feel used, you did the right thing for you.My advice: forget him!Keep it up!Dr T.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 July 2009):
 You weren't used, you were smart. Think how awful you would have felt if you had met up with the guy and actually did do something with him. He is only looking for some action nothing more. Consider yourself to be too smart to be played by him.
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