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writes: [Mod note: this seems to be a continuation from an earlier question, but there was no link provided.]the guy i was telling you did go out exterme amount of girls he country lad living in the city .when i meet first he wss so nice ,warm,helpful.he was year older me,i meet him doing a course.when i was up set he asked me wasi ok.thatwas in the year 2002.i asked me every day .when we staarted he had a new girl evey night of the week by neck bites on neck.he went with a skinny blonde before he asked me out.he was chatting up girlsin the morning ,at lunch and going home.the blonde girl cane in where having our luch and said he wasn,t nice at all.yet i had luch with him by my self with him he was fine.when i didn,t want to go out with and my ma said i rejected him its like he wasn,t short a fo girls to ask out.i conatct him just a few weeks ago.in very email he repeats what he said in the last email.i asked him how was he keping fine he,d say ,all short answers.never asked me how i am getting on .or where am i.iasked for his mobile number becasue lives on a fishing boat.he said to me "i asked him did he play any rubgy lately and and if he couldn,t email me to text me.this wss hes and i quate"hi louise all is fine don,t get access to emailand i don,t give out my mobile number sorry take care.tell what do you make out of that sentence ?because i am lost.he cold and ditance ,and not warm and caring as he was .he personalty changed completelyi haven,t seen i just email him. he hasn,t seen me and i don,t know what he looks like any more . he avoids every question,he just gives me cold and short reposne.can you help figure this out,i didn,t do to him we got great always laughing and have fun. now he just cold as ice .i tell you a bit him :hes 5ft10" tall. blues eyes and brown hair,well bult like a rubgy player ,his eduaction he only a junior cert that like highschool in american terms.he uased to be mecahnice .now he wrks on his da fidhing spending 3 weeks at a time stuck on a boat he said his loves i doubt though.he not shallow at all ,he asked me si he coudn,t be sshallow.si i am stumped .m mother might think marred still no reason to be cols towards me.help understnd what just happen .
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 Willow? My lost and unhappy Willow? You are still worried about this guy who you said "no" to seven years ago? Hon, you've got an obsessive thought pattern problem. You cannot seem to change this negativity, where you repeat and rehash and worry about this old history--never moving forward, not accepting you for where you are now. You get angry with us when we can't seem to find the words you're waiting to hear.
Willow, when was the last time you saw your counselor? The one who told you that you were the cause of your problems, not him?
I'm sorry for you that you are so stuck and cannot move forward and find the joy in life. It's there, you have to find it in between all the rotten things that happen.
Go get "The Road Less Traveled" by M. Scott Peck, M.D. and read it. http://www.amazon.co.uk/Road-Less-Travelled-Arrow-New-Age/dp/0099727404/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1247102832&sr=8-2
Then let me know how you like it, you may have to send me a PM, as your follow up posts don't seem to register, so I won't know if you have posted again.
Answer this question, in a yes or no: do you want to change your life and find a path to happiness?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): i psted the poster
Louise is not her real.its a fasle name
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