I did everything for him but now I'm all alone

A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi guys, I wanna start telling you guys that I'm gay, last week my bf and I broke up after a very ugly argument, that day ii texted him, he answered me in this way, what do you want? so I asked him why did he reply like that so he said, "omfg i dont wanna talk to u. what do u want?", he has been kinda rude to me a lot of times in the past, but after a fight we had I changed a bit my attitude towards him, I didnt go out with my friends cuz I dedicated myself entirely to him, I spent all the weekends at his house, i really gave my all to him, but the last weekend i decided to hang out with my best friend who is like my big brother we went to nyc to walk around and have fun, so he called me like 4 times, I called him right away and the first thing he asked me was, where are you and with who?, so i told him im with my best friend in the city, he made such a big deal of it and dared to say that i was lying to him, when i always showed him respect and loyalty cuz i really loved him and i still do, so after that night everything changed, he didnt want to reply my txts, so i called him the next day, then its when he answered what do you want?, so i was like why r u talking to me like that? and he said he doesnt wanna talk to me anymore, i burst to tears after hearing that and many other rude things he said, he said he was gonna call me soon to know how i was doing and he never did, now her best friend requested me as a friend on facebook, and im not sure if id add her cuz once i trust her and told her all my feelings towards my boyfriend, and she ran and told him everything i said, i told her not to tell him anything, now shes doing that and im pretty sure he asked her to do that, i had her on my facebook, she deleted me and now shes requesting me back, i dont really know what to do, i really miss my boyfriend and i wanna call him or text him, but im scared to get more hurt and brokenhearted than i am now, this is not being easy at all, i wish id have a hope to go back with him, u know love always blinds us, the thing is that im feeling really depressed and alone now, i really need as many advice as possible, i need to lift up my spirit, i feel so empty now that i gave him all my love, i did everything for him and now im the one who is all alone.

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