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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Recently, my stepbrother has been trying to pants me. i thought it was just some inmature thing a brother would do. but last night, my step brother and me were in my room talking. We were just talking about his ex-girlfriend and other thing like that. and then we both started watching tv. i was on my bed and he was in my chair. I fell asleep. i later woke up and felt him touching me. He pulled my pants down and rubbed my butt. He tried multiple times to flip me over, so i would be laying on my back, but i could tell he was scared and didnt want to wake me. Soon enough he said goodnight ang and went to bed. i shut my door and stayed awake all night afraid he would try again. He did open the door multiple times, but found me awake and left. Im so scared and confused. i dont know what to do. i keep trying to believe it was only a dream. He is 7th grade and im in 9th, although hes bigger than me. I have to stay alone with him all summer while me parents work. i just really dont know what to do. and i dont think i can bare telling my parents. i dont know. i feel so alone and scared, and i dont know how im supposed to fall asleep tonight.
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reader, Rachel O  +, writes (12 July 2009):
 thats horrible!
you really need to tell a parent, maybe one you closest to,
that cant go on, it could get worse!
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reader, SUICIDEVICTIM +, writes (12 July 2009):
 I think you should confront him first if you tell your parents it could ruin both your future relationship and your brother will never forgive you, what he did is messed up but he deserves a second chance and shouldn't be condemned so fast he's just a kid secondly you're his step sister so maybe he finds you attractive and doesn't know how to express himself or he could just be curious I don't think he's trying to rape you but I feel you need to confront him and be serious about it tell him you know what he did you don't like it its inappropriate and if he ever does it again you will tell sleep with a knife or something sharp under your pillow to cut him and if he does it again just scream, but if you care about him at all as a sister i would say give him a second chance.
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reader, infamous +, writes (12 July 2009):
that is fucked up.if you really cant tell your parents then warn him. Tell him to never, EVER do it again. if he persists then knock him the fuck out with something heavy then kick him in the nuts whiles he's down. You would have every right to do it to cuz he has it coming and he cant go telling your parents that you bashed his face in because he would have to tell what he did to you to make you do it.please if you cant do this then tell your parents because a good friend of mine was raped by her older brother starting from when she was 5 and he stopped when she was 17 years old so I do not take kindly to siblings molesting each other.in my opinion that is the best way of making him stop without telling your parents about it.good luck, don't let the little fucker mess with you.
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reader, Azula  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 Uhm girl here. I found some contacts you could try to call. I posted it out on my column. Go and check it out. Please inform me if they have been any help.
And just don't mind the suicidal thing. just the contacts.
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reader, babymama99 +, writes (8 July 2009):
 Tell your parents.
Can you lock your door? if so lock it.
If you really can't bare telling your parents - you mentioned that he was scared and didn't want to wake you. maybe you can confront him and say look I know what you were doing the other night I don't like it STOP IT. He may think that you were asleep and don't know what he did. If this was a grown man I would say, lock him up and throw away the key. but since this is your little brother I'd say let him know that you know what he did and scare the pants off of him.
If this happens again, I'm afraid you will have no choice but to tell your parents. He will only get older, stronger and bolder. nip this in the bud NOW.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 July 2009):
 Tell the parent you are the most comfortable with, and tell them soon. You can't live in fear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): Tell your parents straight away. I'm not even joking, you have to tell them now or By God i know it will happen again.
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reader, Azula +, writes (8 July 2009):
Oh My God!.. Dear you need to tell it to someone or something worse might happen. The very first person to know this is your mother. Try to open up to her. Girl you really need to stop this right from the start. Oh! You really need to talk to tour parents before its too late. Please. I'm worried and this is all I can do for you. Talk to your parents and do that for yourself.
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