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He keeps going back and forth should I just give him up?

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Question - (8 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

well there is this boy/my ex (we we're together for a long time)(10 months) that i realllyyy lovee with all my heart and i dont want to let go of him...but im not sure if i should or shouldn't??...i feel like i already lost him..but i didnt want to...we'v constantly been breaking up for dumb reasons(5 times)....and each time we split up for like 2 weeks or 2 months...and i know and feel he's the one...because no matter what i've tryed doin i can never ever get over him..and i dont want to!!...i need him!!! and want him!!!...and i feel he still loves me...but we're just friends...he breaks up with me then goes back to this other girl then back to me!...what should i do!!!?????.....without him my life feels EMPTY!!!!....i NEED HIM BACKK!!!...:(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009):

well ill do understand about youre feelings..

if i were you confront him if he really loves you.

i also experienced that being so blind to the things he is doing to me. i don't care about other things as long he is there and i love him.. i want him back and i really need him but i don't know if he wants that too..

just ask him about his feelings then you decide and thing for the best decision you want to take in..

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (8 July 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony aunthun i think there itself shows it's not true love.

he ends it with you and goes back to some other girl?

that's not love i don't think he actually loves you at all.

you may think you do but i don't think he does for you.

if he did feel for you he wouldn't go back to some other girl everytime you break up...

best thing to do is leave him to it.

i mean he only does this because he knows you'll take him back over and over again and it's not fair on you because it's harder for you to move on.

but you need to let him go altogether and don't take him back no matter how much he says he loves you or wants to be with you.

it's lies to be honest hun he's going back to another girl after you guys split!

that's not normal.

sorry but true.

hope this helps hun x ilovebowsandcherries x

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