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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am dead jealous of my boyfriend. We have been together for over 10 years, we have a son together and we live together for 7 yrs. now. we are planning to get married maybe next year. last weekend on a old friend gathering his ex. gf was there with her new husband. they never say hi to either both of us and then when my BF was outside she approached me and asked me if we were married. I told her the truth and I also said that after 10 years in practically the same, so.. after me saying this she on the low said "ohh, that is about right, I have been with (her ex.bf name) for 3 years and with my husband for 6" ... so what in this world she tried to said? Because I said 10 years and she calculated 9!!! why? why? she is trying to say that my boyfriend was with her while with me????? and when she said bye to us she screamed: "hey! hope I see you sooner next time! no in another 9 years!!!"now, I do trust my boyfriend, whom I love deeply. but it makes me think, because at the beginning we were dating but we did our lives, did he cheated on me with her? or what? he says no. Now, maybe because I am jealous I feel even more in love, and he even looks more appealing to me! crazy!! is this normal?? is this because I fear to loose him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the reply, supposedly they were together before my bf and I starting dating. But, at the beginning of our relationship I did not know exactly my bf friends and life.... it makes me think twice ... I will never forgive him even if this was 10 years ago! it will brake my heart! I can't ask her for two reasons: 1 because I do not want to give her the pleasure of knowing that bothered me, 2 because she lives 2 hours away from our actual house.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 July 2009):
 Maybe she is just lousy with math? I'd say forget it, no biggy.
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