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30-35,
*gh101
writes:So yesterday i got a call from a friend she needed to see me at wrk. She shows up and said i did it. With a guy lets call Jake. He is lke 17 and she is 14. He has slept around a lil and so i ust put my hands over my face.Then she told me where on her best friends couch while they are away on vacation. She was a virgin and rlly dnt want jake she wanted her ex lets call bob who should would not have sex with.Im lke procection? No they used the withdraw method. She new nothing! im lke girl you can get preg from pre cum!! And she is lke right in the middle of her cycle.(perod). Now her ex lets call steve is hating her guts cause she wouldnt have sex with him. And bob still dsnt no.What can i tell her cause she is rlly rllly deressed??
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reader, ugh101 +, writes (9 July 2009):
ugh101 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Sex and that her ex hates her. He feels lke he can control her but i am trying to make her understand that she is not his and never was. She gave his head but never had intercouse with him. but she had sex with her ex's best friend. so she feels bad cause hes always wrried bout her being a slut and she feels lke one now. Ughh this is why 14 yr old girls should not have sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): Dear the problem was not that clear to me.Is she depressed cause she had sex? her exs hate her? bob says no?Anyway, you can ask her if she is happy after the sex or her reasons. Try to know the problem. Then what caused it. the solve it.Try to be calm and relax, that could support her.And be a comfort in every way. Assure her that you will always be there for her.And remember view things in a neutral way.
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