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*nne3424
writes:I have been married for almost three years. I do love my husband, but there has been many times when I find myself wanting to be with other people. Is that normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 Guys spend most of of their lives fantasying about other women but never do anything more then enjoy the ride. Incorporate some of the fantasies (mind only) into your love making and it could help make your love life more interesting and keep things spicy into your old age. Have fun with it.
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reader, airn230 +, writes (9 July 2009):
My first question is Would you act on this feeling? If you would i would say you need to do a little soul searching and find out just what you are wanting. If you would never act on it, then I would say it is just a fantasy. I have been with the same guy for 6 and 1/2 years, and sometimes I wish I would still get those little butterflies in my stomach like when you first get together, but sometimes over time a people get comfortable with each other and they loose a little spark. There is no harm in fantasizing as long as you are satisfied with your partner, and would never cheat. Once you step over that boundary, then something innocent can turn ugly.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 July 2009):
 I wouldn't call it normal. BUT, I would say it is unheard off.
You need to figure out what is it you aren't getting/giving in your marriage that makes you think you can get it from others.
What is normal though is, no matter how many years you have been married you will always meet and find strangers attractive. It's what you do about it that shows what you are made off and how strong your marriage is.
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