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anonymous
writes:HeyySo I have this problem where when I get drunk I'll hook up with random guys and most of the time are alot older than me. Does it make me a slut to hook up with random people even though I'm drunk??
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 July 2009):
 You may not be an alcoholic now but like any drug, alcohol is addictive physically and/or emotionally. Just be very careful, it really sounds to me like you are inviting trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): The problem is not only that you hook up with stangers but that you drink to the point you are endangering yourself..you lost control of yourself. Kid You have no idea who these people are and if they are going to hurt you and if they have STD's. Girl,Stop..Find something else besides drinking. You can still have a great time doing other activities.
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reader, possum  +, writes (9 July 2009):
Being drunk lowers inahabitions, as you know...so there is no telling what might happen.
It only takes you to hook up with 1 wrong person...and your life could be changed forever!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): i bet that being a bit tipsy gives you the extra confidence you need to feel like your at ease with guys, butat the same time its making u pretty easy to any guy that takes a fancy to you, hey its not bad just done rely on alcohol your a lass who deserves a good time and a few good memories dont spoil them by always being tipsy.
and no your not a slut..stupid word you have girl but always be careful not all guys are nice
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): You should decide if it's okay to do that (in answer to your new question). If you feel really dumb after doing that then yeah, you should probably stop. If you worry about catching something, yeah, stop.
If you don't, then hey, enjoy it as long as you can stand it.
But yeah, that does kinda make you a slut.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay people I wasn't having sex with people when I was drunk..my question just made it seem like that which I notice now., I meant to say if I'm kinda drunk is it ok to just have a good time and hook up with people (not having sex) without being a smutty person ?P.S. I'm not an alcoholic and I don't go around sleeping with random ppl I don't know
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): I'm reluctant to use the term slut...however, you're behaviour is--as I suspect you already know--very risky at many levels...STDs, AIDS, etc. not to mention your reputation, which cannot be easily reconstructed. I don't know for sure but it sounds like you have a lot of unresolved intimacy issues and your need for male attention at any cost implies a fractured male image...While most guys say they like a loose girl, the reality is, no one wants a long term relationship with a girl who has been loose before meeting them!!! So take care and if you must drink, drink only with close friends...
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (8 July 2009):
 Slut is an awfully judgemental term - I hate it. Having said that you know that what you are doing isn't clever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): I wouldn't call you a slut, but is that how you view yourself? I am sure that you wouldn't be asking this if you were happy with your behaviour...so that in itself needs addressing. Not to mention the issue of STDs/HIV and the danger of not knowing these guys. Please stop drinking until you can get a handle on this and ask yourself why you are doing it. Have a little (lot) more respect for yourself, please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): Yup. It would to me. I wouldn't want to have anything to do with you if I had known you screwed a bunch of guys you barely knew. Being drunk is no excuse, in fact being drunk just makes you sound sluttier.
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reader, Injeopardy +, writes (8 July 2009):
YES.
You know what's going to happen when you get drunk and you do it anyway. It's not like it's some accident. You keep putting yourself in a situation for this stuff to happen.
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reader, rcn +, writes (8 July 2009):
 I'm not going to state whether this behavior makes you a slut, but I will say that alcohol does not give you an excuse for what you're doing.
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