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Am I too old to express an interest in her sexually?

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Question - (11 July 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2009)
A male United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

I just want to get some peoples thoughts on this one.

At what "age" does it become "unacceptable" for a man (Aged 46) to have lewd thoughts about a young woman (i.e 18).

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A male reader, FireManJ United States +, writes (7 August 2009):

FireManJ agony auntI guess it all depends on your intentions. Are you interested in her just as a sexual object? In that case, the law is clear and yes you are free to attempt to have sex with her no matter what your age difference.

It's wrong, though, and in the end, it won't make you happy. If you want her sexually, why not marry her? Bo Derek the actress/model married John Derek when she was 18 and he was 46. Here's the best part - their marriage lasted, get this, 22 years!

In a country where we can barely get people to marry in the first place, and then when they do, 65% of those fail after just a few years - well, maybe it's time we encouraged the older fellas to start after the younger girls, instead of thinking of them as dirty old men.

Time for some facts instead of all this hysterical emotion.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009):

Highly unlikely the feeling is mutual.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009):

I say go for it man. It's not like you are raping her she can say no! Go on give it to her man!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009):

No, this is just plain nasty!!! You are old enough to be her father; if you have children around the same age (which is quite possible), then to reiterate, THIS IS PLAIN NASTY!!

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A female reader, jaime90 Australia +, writes (11 July 2009):

jaime90 agony auntwhat the others have said, you would be too old to actually act on them but thoughts are ok

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (11 July 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntYou're never too old to do a little fantasizing. At least that's what I tell myself XD

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A female reader, Ash.D United States +, writes (11 July 2009):

Ash.D agony auntHonestly i think it's fine coming from an 18 year old herself young women love being admired by young hot men, but we love being admired by older men as well gray is hot if you know what i mean so dont worry about it no i dont think your too old

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (11 July 2009):

deejuliet agony auntYou are never too old to have lewd thoughts. Just dont act on them! Cause, yeah, you are too old for her.

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