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writes:...so i dated this guy for year and we have this plan that we're going to be together again [we broke up because i moved]. we said that while we're not together we're gonna have fun and all we're both in college and so we're going to have fun..[with other people] and he says that a girl kissed him the same day i left... and that really hurt you know... and he says that he'll never do it again and he knows that it hurt me and he's going to wait for me...but then i kissed 2guys at a party yesterday... and i really didnt want to...but they just pulled me in and kissed me but i was the one who pulled away...i really don't want to tell him...do you guys think i should? i wasnt trying to get back at him or anything like that...the guys just drank a lot and i was saying bye to them and they just kissed me but i pulled away!! and i don't if i should tell him...because i really want to be with him in the future... and we made a promise to tell each other if we would do something like this...but i dont want to tell him... and i think he said that he wouldnt want to know if i would do something...im just really confused if i should tell him or not...help?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (11 July 2009):
I think this whole telling each other rule is a bit silly to be honest.
All it will do is stop you having fun and make you feel hurt.
Tell him that you didn't like knowing about this other girl and that you feel like you will never be able to relax knowing you have to tell him about stuff and hurt him.
Talk to him about the rule and if he insists it stays then tell him. If he agrees that it's stupid then you know you are free to go off with who ever you like and you two can actually be friends and not have all this strain on you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (11 July 2009):
 I wouldn't bother telling him! He doesn't have to know. It wasn't important to you, you didn't even kiss them back. Just leave this and move on! X
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reader, :)31215 +, writes (11 July 2009):
 i think you should tell him. I know it wont be easy to, but you made a promise together and you should keep tht promise.
Good luck :)
Xx
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