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writes:kay..i already made a post or whatever, but im gonna make another one. i really really love the guy im with and we haven't had sex yet. he says he'll wait for me as long as i need him to. the question is is if i can wait. i'm really ready. and i'm kinda worried about the condom breaking or somethin.but just about all my friends and his friends have had sex and none of them are pregnant. so maybe it won't happen. i know you guys will say im too young. i understand that. but i don't know how long ill be willing to wait. so any advice?
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (11 July 2009):
 Honey, you're way too young to have sex. You're 13-15 years old, meaning your body is still adjusting to puberty.
Just love your boyfriend and wait. He said he'd wait for you as long as you need to, sounding like a very understanding and loving boyfriend. Your first time is a very special moment and it should be with the person you love so much at the RIGHT TIME. Don't just have sex because everyone else is doing it because if you do it just for that reason, you're bound to get hurt.
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reader, keepitreal03  +, writes (11 July 2009):
You may be that un lucky one to get pregnant so if u don't wanna be that un lucky girl don't do it. Plus u may love him but there's a big chance he won't be the person u spend ur life with. And waiting will save u from wishing u would have waited when u meet that real special guy. Ur so young and horny at this age that ur not thinking about all that. But I waited because I just didn't wanna get knocked up I wanted to finish high school first and it worked. And my boyfriend now of 6 years was so happy to meet a girl who only had 1 partner before him. He said that's no common. Most girls have 5 or 10 and that's when I was 19 I'm 24 now and my friends have had 15 plus partners. Giving it up to fast. Guys want u more when u don't give the goodies trust me!!! So save em who cares what ur friends say. They will want u to do it cause they did...and they know u are special and different because u have something they don't and can never get back. So please think more about this.
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