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male
age
51-59,
*aldisere
writes:In a total mess with my life . In love with(and have been for 2 and a half years) someone who I hope and think she feels the same , problem is we are bothh married to other people and have young children (each have 2) . Its time to change and be honest with everyone but how without the mess getting worse , really dont want to mess the kids lives up or anyones come to that.Just cant seem to find an answer? Reply to this Question
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reader, Bradleys Mom! +, writes (11 July 2009):
truthfully, both of you are insensitive, selfish,and cruel. the children dont deserve this, on both parts. your one of those people id like steve to sort out, same never ending stories we are so tired of hearing about!! you aint right! good at being judgemental to others you nothing about yet are full of blemish yourselves. damn right, sort yourselves out! however, shouting at children is of no avail and doesnt sort nothing out if they dont understand. thats why you came to this site for advice. SO .. my advice IS: talk to this girl of yours. sort your issues on whether you want to be together or not. if not, accept it as painfully as it may be and live for your kids. if she feels the same. job well done, good for you both. now sort out how you are going to tell this to the kids, and make them understand that your love is unconditional for them despite these huge changes in their lives in both parties.
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