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writes: i am wondering why is every guy i like and nice to .hurts and insults me and call me names when i am only trying nice to them. almost aggressive like behavior.now i am afraid of guys, now i won,t go near them, because i am afraid they call me names and treated me like dirt like they always done.none of the guys i like acknowledge my existence let alone ask me out.i think it's easier never to be loved.not one guy ever showed me once of kindness in my life only made out of me.guys boast about these girls who are worth gold to them i mean nothing to them like i was disease
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): lazy guy i suppose that true
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (11 July 2009):
 Some people are just slime. They like to hurt others for the fun of it or to make themselves feel better.
Sadly, some people have a tendency to seek them out.
Am I right in thinking you got low self-esteem? That could lead you to seek approval in others. Very human but it makes you extremely vulnerable to people who abuse this need to control/dominate you.
Stay away from the guys you are normally attracted to for a while. Start to work on being content with your own life, just being single and only responsible for your own happiness and damn what anyone else thinks.
if you succeed in acapting yourself as you are, you might suddenly find that the kinds of guys who used you in the past suddenly are not attractive at all anymore. You will no longer need them to feed you crumbs of acknowledgement.
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