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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Can someone please tell me what I've done wrong. My boyfriend doesn't come around me or talk to me as much as he use to. I asked him why and he says its my attitude. I don't have a clue what he's talking about because the only attitude is his. Sunday we came back from a nice trip out of town. He got mad cause I gave my brother fireworks I bought with my money. I don't know why hes mad cause I bought his stuff (my boyfriend)to like always. He didnt want 2 talk anymore that day so I let it be.Monday he called 6am 2 say he cant text somethings wrong with his phone. When I did call he didnt answer. He called me 10pm but I was sleep. Tuesday he was able to text but didnt. Wednesday he call me back and wanted me to come over 9pm but I was to tired (I get up at 5am to go to work)he got mad but said he wasnt. He said "4 da record he see where we at in our relationship". I try to change my mind to make him happy and he says,"stay home with ur family like u wanted to in the 1st place". I text Im sorry Im not tryin to make him mad, he goes Im always tired during the week. I think hes crazy, when I come home I take care a niece dog and old parent. When he goes home he goes to bed, sleep, wake up and want to party all night. The one time I say no he goes crazy. Thursday I was upset by what he said told him I was and he says" Im not going to entertain dumbness". I think he sayin Im dumb, I just said fine. Yesterday he didnt call or text so I text him and he says"ur to tired to c my face but u love me". This is where I need help, Am I wrong 4 sayin no 1 time? What did I do wrong?
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (11 July 2009):
You didn't do anything wrong! Your boyfriend is acting like a jerk and a baby. He's extremely childish. Tell him he can grow up or you can move on.
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reader, Harry Castle  +, writes (11 July 2009):
 What you did wrong, and are still doing it, is to let this moron intimidate and walk all over you.
Regain your self respect and close the door on this controlling neanderthal and find someone worthy of you.
Harry.
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