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Sex on the first date what should I expect now?

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Question - (11 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This guy and i met at a club. We talked and called each other the next day and decided we should hang out that night. He drove quite a distance to see me. Things got really hot and ended up having sex on the "first date". Now i'm not sure whether or not this will go any further, though i really want it to. He did say he liked me, called me beautiful, and he just wants to go with the flow... hmmm... should i expect a phone call or give up on this one?

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A female reader, we-are-nowhere  +, writes (12 July 2009):

we-are-nowhere agony auntwell don't be waiting by the phone really , don't put too much hope on the whole thing .. it might have been just a one night thing for him , or he might be interested in getting to know you more .. u just knew him so don't stress it

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A male reader, metalsman United Kingdom +, writes (12 July 2009):

metalsman agony auntI would'nt hold out too much hope to be honest...seeing as you gave your "all", and he took it..where's the next level of tis relationship going?..It's reached it's zenith already as far as he's concerned.

It sounds like this guy's knotched you up as another mark on his bedpost..seems like probably just a player..but bear in mind you offered it to him on a plate.

It might serve you well to consider that most decent guys like the thrill of the chase to qualify a "keeper" for a girlfriend.

Good Luck

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