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female
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anonymous
writes: This guy and i met at a club. We talked and called each other the next day and decided we should hang out that night. He drove quite a distance to see me. Things got really hot and ended up having sex on the "first date". Now i'm not sure whether or not this will go any further, though i really want it to. He did say he liked me, called me beautiful, and he just wants to go with the flow... hmmm... should i expect a phone call or give up on this one? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, we-are-nowhere +, writes (12 July 2009):
well don't be waiting by the phone really , don't put too much hope on the whole thing .. it might have been just a one night thing for him , or he might be interested in getting to know you more .. u just knew him so don't stress it
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reader, metalsman +, writes (12 July 2009):
I would'nt hold out too much hope to be honest...seeing as you gave your "all", and he took it..where's the next level of tis relationship going?..It's reached it's zenith already as far as he's concerned.
It sounds like this guy's knotched you up as another mark on his bedpost..seems like probably just a player..but bear in mind you offered it to him on a plate.
It might serve you well to consider that most decent guys like the thrill of the chase to qualify a "keeper" for a girlfriend.
Good Luck
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