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writes: When my boyfriend fingers me it doesnt feel that good at all. It kinda hurts but thats because i'm tight. He only uses one finger so obviously its not because there is too many in there. I always get really wet so thats not a problem. I don't understand why it doesnt feel good? My bestfriend tells me that when she gets fingered it feels super good. It feels good when he plays and rubs on my clit but thats it. The only orgasm i've had is from my clit area. I don't get it. He is very experienced and so am i. We've been together for a year and we've both been with people before us. My last two boyfriends couldnt make it feel good either (not that i told them) but his other girlfriends felt pleasure while he did it. So it's all me. What's wrong and what can i do to fix it? helppp :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): Well I think that you are too young for this, but there are many reasons why this could be happening. He could be bumping against your cervix. He could be scraping you with his fingernails (even if they are short.) The rough skin on his fingers might hurt you. And if he smokes, maybe the nicotine from the cigarette is hurting you.
Practice self-assertion. If it doesn't feel good, tell him so. Don't worry about what he might think or say. You are the most important person in your life and you should remain so. Maybe have him put a glove on his finger and see if this helps. I am not advocating what you do, but since I feel that you might do it anyways, I am just offering my advice.
Take care.
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