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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I broke up with a guy I am interested in because he always delays on answering my text messages. When he texts me he ask me if I have a free time, I answer and then after one or two weeks he says he was very very busy. I knew him for four months and he never phoned me. We were out once for three hours. He is always very nice to me and I think he also is shy. He does not act shyly with others. I had a feeling that he is a player because he eg never phoned me and during these four months. When I asked him why do you behave like that, do you have a girlfriend. He answered no and was very very nice to me. He likes me but he contact me only when he wants to. When I texted him I do not want to see him anymore if he continue behaving like that. He replied that: "my text messages always surprise him but he likes them, and that he wondered how could I have so strong feelings if we only had a short date and then he said The whole thing is nothing for him now as his life look like now." So after three months breake up, we met by accident( I could see that he shivered when he saw me). I told him I have a boyfriend. I could see he was so sad when he knew I had a boyfriend. One month later he texted me asking me if I have a boyfriend now. Actually, I broke up with the new boyfriend because I do not have strong feelings for him.So I answered him No I haven't. It was one week ago since he texted me that message.He did not text me again.What shall I do??? Shall I ask him out? Or leave him? I love him and I know he likes me.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (11 July 2009):
Sorry, honey. But no. He texted to you a month later after seeing you had a boyfriend because he was jealous. Then when you told him you didn't have him anymore, he stopped because he's immature and likes to play games. He's obviously not into having anything serious. Don't ask him out, leave him. I really don't think you love him, you said so yourself that he was just a guy you were interested in. If he likes you, he'll come after you.
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