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His ex is stalking us!

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Question - (11 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *herryCupcake writes:

Me and my boyf have been together about 4 month now and soo in love. When we first got together he warned me about his ex.

She was a compulsive liar, dumped him at xmas, cried rape oh and did i mention he worked with her in a small shop?

We got together about 3 month after they split up and regulary went to the shop where he worked because it is a convenience store, he lives right next door and his best friend works there. Everytime we went in she used to run in back, later we found out she was crying and cutting herself, whoops.

Anyway, she got a transfer to another branch and got a new boyf but she still came to the shop where he worked and her new boyf used to stare at me, proper intimidating him. She stopped doing that and one time me and my boyf were walking late at night and we passed them in a bus shelter, she said something and he turned to look and really stared. It was so freaky.

Anyhow, other day it was hot, and i mean really hot and we called in a shop for a drink, guess who was working? You got it, his ex. There was a queue and when we got to front she had a word with woman who on other till who went and got a supervisor and she went off in back. This took ages and me and my boyf were really shocked and felt outcasted because its been 7 month since they split and its kind of stupid. Anyway, the next day we were in mcdonalds and his exs mum and grandma were there, he told me previously that he had a lot of problems with them two and her mum who is apparently a physco was staring like hell.

Tonight, me and my boyf had been for a walk and as we approached a bus stop he noticed his ex there. Yay or what? And she went round side of bus stop where we couldnt see and next thing we know her boyf is right close to us with his arms folding calling my boyfriend a "pedo" and saying "you know what i mean". Honestly, i was bricking it, hes a big guy!

Its putting strain on our relationship from my point of view and i was also wondering if this is all worth reporting to the police?

Sorry about the length and thankyou so much in advance. Its making me poorly.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (12 July 2009):

rcn agony auntI highly recommend notifying the police. I personally dated one of these, and if you don't take action it wont stop and possibly get worse.

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