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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was sort of seeing a guy for 6 months, i never meet anyone and i was happy that i've actually meet someone for once. He turned out to be a liar and a user though. I slept with him and he never spoke to me again. That was about 2 months ago, and im feeling better, but its only a matter of time before i bump into him, he lives close to me to make matters worse.Its going to hurt so much when i see him, i stopped contact with him, and he tryed to apologize (it was a pathetic apology saying didn't use me)so when i see him, we aren't even going to speak to each other.To make matters worse i've suffered from depressions,anxiety and low self esteem issues for years and this has made it so much worse.Actually started to feel happier thinking someonee honestly liked me and i was hoping it would last, but i was totally used.Im going to feel so rubbish if i see him, thinking someonee that good looking would ever consider making me their girlfriend.anyone have any advice :(?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): Dont feel down, theres more fish in the sea! It seems this guy was a tottal jerk to you if you do happen to run in to him hold your head high and act as if your life could'nt be better. Dont act upset or nervous around him because thats what people like him want you to feel they want to steal your self confidence and take away your pride when really thats what THEY should be feeling not you. Dont worry theres people out there like that everywhere but with bad guys theres always good guys. Dont think so low of your self, say to your self "I am an atractive, smart, sophisticated woman" everyday and soon you'll feel alot better about your self! Its happened to alot of girls and guys just treat them as another obsticle to finding the rite person for you. Its true what they say ya no everyone is unike in there own way! He may be attractive on the outside but on the inside hes pure ugly.
Hope this helped. You can p.m if you want any more help x x
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