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writes:hi this might sound a bit confusing for some people!! well me and my partner met 4 years ago in scotland!! i was 16 from scotland he 22 from england! we were together for 4 months and decided to move to ireland (my mum lives there) to get a better life as we didnt have much there!!, stayed in ireland for a 2 year.. i fell pregnant and we moved to england because he missed his family!! i couldnt cope in england, i had a very bad pregnancy,, and needed a family member around me ! so we moved back to ireland wen i was 8 month pregnant! that only lasted 4 months before i started missing my hometown and family in scotland!so again we got up and left!! now weve been in scotland for 8 month! my partner want to move back to england but to be haunest i dont want to move! our son will b 1 next month, im quiet settled here but i feel like im being selfish 4 not wanting to move! i understand he misses his family! now we keep arguing because i dont want to move and he does! please help i dont know what to do x Reply to this Question
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reader, xojess022  +, writes (11 July 2009):
well first off congrats about ur baby! so u dont want to move and he does..its tough but u dont want to spend ur whole life living someplace that u arent happy. but ofcourse neither does he. i think u should both move somewhere that is neither scotland or england..and someplace u both love. i understand u will both miss ur families..but there is a point in life where u have to think of ur own family and how u want to spend the rest of ur life. u can still visit family members! just not as frequently. but always keep in touch with them.
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reader, xojess022 +, writes (11 July 2009):
well first off congrats about ur baby! so u dont want to move and he does..its tough but u dont want to spend ur whole life living someplace that u arent happy. but ofcourse neither does he. i think u should both move somewhere that is neither scotland or england..and someplace u both love. i understand u will both miss ur families..but there is a point in life where u have to think of ur own family and how u want to spend the rest of ur life. u can still visit family members! just not as frequently. but always keep in touch with them.
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