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anonymous
writes:My older sister is a complete b****. I'm not a very sociable person. I find it difficult to mingle with new people. I'm not an introvert, but making new friends is not something that is easy for me to do. My sister always teases me about this. She constantly tells me that I have no social life and very few friends. She always goes out, and before she does she would imply or directly comment that she has lots of friends and a boyfriend, and that I have no one. This hurts me alot. We use to be close growing up. We were on the same netball team and took dance classes together. But in the last couple of years, she has been a real B**** to me. She cares more about her boyfriend and friends than she does about her family. She spends so much time with them it hurts me. How can I make things go back to the way they use to be? And should I? How can I learn to make friends without being so shy and nervous?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): well my love dont you worrie about a thing your sister knows it gets to you thats why she dose it keep being nice to her and she will stop it as she will get board with it and in the mean time try and talk to some one about how you feel you must have a best friend i too got teased with both my sisters when i was young and now we are the best of friends get your sister to help you try telling her to help you insterd of her teaseing you tell her you wont her help if you try give her some thing she can do for you it makes her feel good
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (11 July 2009):
 Well,You can always give her a good smack in the mouth...LOL..JUST KIDDING!!! young lady. please don't do that.I do understand though. I had two older sisters that absolutely tormented the dogcrap out of me in high school, and I myself was pretty much a loner during those years. It didn't matter to them what it was from a bad haircut to the way I looked at them, I was simply cannon fodder for my older sisters torture. Its part of having brothers or sisters I guess, lol.Just remember that she is your sister, and their is at your ages (and all ages for that matter) a form of sibling rivalry. As hard as it is to have to hear it from her, it will pass. If you try to not react to it, hopefully the momentary sense of superiority she feels will lose its luster, because its not really any fun to tease someone unless they react to it.This will pass.As for your shyness,the only advice I can give you is what I have learned( for better or worse...lol) is to just be yourself. It sounds corny I know, but in the long run its the best policy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): 1 word puberty she WILL grow out of it do NOT worry
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