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writes:I met this guy online, he contacted ME, we emailed back and forth a few times he gave me his phone number and msn address pretty fast, i thanked him but did not use them right away. As soon as i added him to my msn he stopped emailing me online, he asked that i phone him, i did, the msn conversations stopped, he asked me out we met went out , now its all stopped. is it just me or is this behavior foretelling that he is just after the chase and if i were to ever sleep with him he would probably pull a disappearing act on me? am i crazy or what do you think of all this?Thank you:)
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reader, happiness4all  +, writes (21 February 2009):
It seems like the date didn't go as well as you may have thought and he just was being polite. It's nothing to take personally though. Sometimes, it's just not enough chemistry offline as online to take it to that next level. Neeeext! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe's playing games! he tells me to call him he doesnt pick up or call back, i give him shit when he finally called 2 days later then a few days after that he sends me a message asking if he can call me in an hour i said yes he never called, at all! its done thats it, i have completely lost interest, i am not a fan of these kinds of games. do guys actually do this play cat and mouse games? is this how it is these days?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): So how long is it since you heard from him? Guys often take several days to get back to you and don't phone when they say they will. If he contacts you again and arranges another date then all well and good. If he doesn't then you know he just wasn't as into you as you were into him.Some people see the internet as just a tool for meeting people and want to get offline and into the real world as soon as possible. People who are serious about wanting a real life relationship are likely to behave like this (although they might be players too, so take it slow until you are sure of his intentions).
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reader, pastfirst +, writes (5 February 2009):
 On-line dating can be dicey. You don't really know anything about him.
If he doesn't contact you, forget about him. There are plenty more fish in the sea.
In future, get to know the guy before reading too much into his behaviour.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009): I think you should date for a year or more before taking it to the next level, hun.
Some guys are sex predators; they date you for a week/month, and then they force you to have sex and leave you. (Note I said some guys. Not all.)
I met my own boyfriend on the internet, and it took us two years just to get to the calling/mailing/seeing each other twice a week stage. This is our third year together and we are not having sex until we are sure that we are going to be committed to each other. But that's just me.. C:
I think you should be careful around this guy. Very, very careful. Remember to NOT let him push you around in the friendship/relationship. Do NOT have sex unless YOU want to. Make sure the relationship is stable and secure before doing so.
I hope I was helpful..
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionp.s. the date went well, we connected, etc, he said he wants to see me again!
i am sooooo confused
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