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Was he rejected?

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Question - (5 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

If things get hot n heavy!! He initiates it and I follow..then I end up putting the brakes! Say 'no' to sex. Will my partner end up so frustrated that it will drift him further apart.

I'm asking this because it went as far as him pulling his pants down and me rubbing it. He wanted me to give him oral. I didn't, instead just rubbed it and said, 'no' That night he got quiet on me...and the next day he said, he felt rejected. Is this true?

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (5 February 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt yes probably, he feels rejected

after rubbing on his johnson...and then you juss say no???

you should've tlked to him way before he dropped his pants and told him that you were not ready for sex yet

but the way it happened, he might feel that his size turned you of or something.. so he probably does feel rejected

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