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36-40,
*zrlinz
writes:I have a boyfriend of almost 3 years, but just recently my first love(a guy that I liked for almost 6 years) came back into my life. He got a job at my work, so we see each other a lot. We were friends for a long time, I really liked him, and we finally got together for a while before he left for Australia for school for six months, and then when he came back we didn't really talk. He devastated me by telling me he had a new girlfriend, so I cut him out of my life. But now I'm starting to have feelings for him again. Don't get me wrong, I love my boyfriend more than anything. We live together, have come through so many things(including cheating on his behalf but we worked throught it and became stronger), and I would do anything for him. But I feel myself pulling away from him because of this other man. I don't know what to do. I have my boyfriend, whom I want to spend the rest of my life with, and love more than anything in the world. But then there is my first love, whom I thought was my soulmate. And it is so hard to see him sometimes because I wish we had worked out.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (5 February 2009):
 Priorities.
You said you love your boyfriend more than anything, and want to spend the rest of your life with him. If that's true, you wouldn't question your feelings because of this other guy.
True love leaves no room for doubt. If you're having some, your love for your boyfriend is not true.
Sit back alone, relax, and reevaluate your feelings. You can't go in a good direction until you know why your going in that direction, without doubt.
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