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writes:i wana get rid of this girl now, she has become crazy about me ..literally !! i got hooked up to her partially out of the need to keep a girl friend. my intentions were never wrong i only got carried away to her love as no one has ever loved me so much. but its going over limits now and i dont want it to get strong rooted further. i dont love this girl and dont wana show my fake love anymore as i dont come up to her expections everytime obviously because i fake things. i know this was foolish and mean, trust me friends, i respect this girl a lot and always want to see her happy in life and this is the only kindest thing i can do to her as of now .she is really a pure hearted girl who really likes me from her true heart and has always been with me in my good and bad times and stood by me everytime. probably this will hurt her a lot as we have come extremely close and talk many times a day. i have never felt for her that way to be frank and i dont want to suffer from a depression after losing her as i am already feeling guilty for playing with her sentiments while she is unaware of that. i know i will have to hurt her a little in order to ease the addiction of me and she will eventually come to know that this is not gonna work, but this will be a sin for me as this innocent girl has not done anything to deserve it.i dont want her to lose faith in love after me or do something dangerous out of depression of losing me. this thing is eating me everyday from inside. my deep attachment towards her was more of just a sympathy than love as her love for me melted my heart and i dont have the courage to tell her the truth. is it too late friends ?? it will not spare me either because even i am badly addicted to her and cant live without it, but the truth cant be denied and i dont have any feelings for her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): OMG! how did this question not get answered!?! ... I have the same problem as you ... hey if you already solved it could you tell me how and how did it go through .. with her ... I have the EXACT same situation ... please I need to know seeing as you posted this in 2009... I'm guessing you already went through with it? I need help ... please I don't want to hurt her and want to see her happy always and to know I am the cause of her unhappiness would kill me... but if I do it she'll def. be hurt. I care for her and no one has loved me more than this girl has ... but I can't keep up disrespecting her like that when I'm not in love with her the same way she is with me... living a lie I know it's horrible on my part but it's only cause I don't want to hurt her , I don't know what to do.
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