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He left and now he wants me back.. should I trust him?

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Question - (5 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *lissful09 writes:

My ex and I have been together off and on for four years. We split in September because he believed there were some things he needed to do for himself. The only reason in the past for splitting was because he always was confused or had issues to deal with within himself. Now, he wants to work on things and get back together, however I have lost my trust in him because I'm unsure he will decide to leave again. He is younger than me, and while we were broken up he did sleep with someone else. Now since we've been working on things he said things were not greener on the other side and he realized alot. I don't know if I should work on things because we truly do love each other or walk away because I'll never know if this is the last time...?

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A female reader, blissful09 United States +, writes (5 February 2009):

blissful09 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thankss so much for your advice =)

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A female reader, sappygirl United States +, writes (5 February 2009):

sappygirl agony auntmove on. you broke up for a reason. Look ahead don't look back. trust your gut instinct. You are too young, too sexy, too beautiful to tolerate anything less.

the world is big and you should date and see what's out there. You won't regret it.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (5 February 2009):

DoubleM agony auntYou can trust him as soon as a mouse trusts the cat.

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