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writes:my boyfriend and i have had a lot of trust problems in the past just because im extremely insecure about how hes still friends with his ex. his online site was up and i looked at it and he was privately messaging her and as i went to look he quickly turned off the computer. i asked what he was saying and he said "oh nothing. just talking about this guy shes talking with." but then later i logged onto it and he was calling her sweetheart, exchanging numbers again and asking when they can hangout. he said he never did but i just dont know if its worth it. he was also messaging another girl quite younger then me saying "you're hot as sh*t." so what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice :) guess ill have some thinking to do!
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reader, Rubygirl77  +, writes (5 February 2009):
I agree with kellyxxx, this guy obviously has no respect for you or any of the other girls he's hooking up with. Personally I'd ditch him and find someone who will respect you and your relationship, it's never easy finding out that someone has been or is thinking of being unfaithful, it's even harder having the courage to end things and also to never look back (guys like this do not under any circumstances deserve a second chance). I hope you find your way to a trusting, loving and secure relationship in the future.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (5 February 2009):
 dont stand up for this at all! i would ditch him if he did this to me. he obviously has no respect for your relationship!!!!! he's the reason you are insecure, dont live like this...life is too short to be in a relationship with no trust! x keep me updated.x
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