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writes:Hi guys,I was just wondering about 'domination' in the bedroom. Me and my bf have a good sex life, but we're a relatively new couple, and haven't tried anything extreme yet.Seeing as it's valentines day soon, I wanted to experiment some sort of dom/sub scenario (basically me ordering him around, haha). I also thought about using ribbon to like, tie his wrists? Or something?Can you tell I really don't know what I'm talking about? :PJust wondered if any of you guys had had experiences with this, and could give me some guidance about, well, getting started really. What should i actually do?Thanks a lot :)
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reader, LoveOnaStick  +, writes (8 February 2009):
I LOVE YOU! I've been waiting to school someone on this! :)Use a soft, fuzzy sort of handcuff or a scarf or fabric to tie him to a bedframe or to himself, it limits his way of escaping your tyrannical awesomeness.Blindfold him. All of his senses will be heightened because he will not be able to see, and every time you touch him, chills will go through his skin, and he won't expect any touch you give him.Lick his balls, but be gentle. They are very sensitive but can prevail as a wonderful way to get him completely randy and at your mercy if you gently lick them, suck them (GENTLE!!!) and write the alphabet on them using your tongue. Again, be very, very gentle!Another thing you can do is dress up for him, a schoolgirl or a cop work out nicely in my opinion.Or you can make him dress up for you ;)Don't be too hardcore in the beginning, you don't want to scare the poor boy, lol.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (5 February 2009):
well it's best to start of with a little soft core domination. as you don't know if you will like it yet, so don't go straight for the gimp masks.lol.
start of with the sub being blind folded and being told what to do, such as where to touch the other person or what posistion to do. the blind fold helps with the other senses, it can be very erotic. you can introduce food as well,make the sub eat certain things and maybe use body choc. also there is being tied up. maybe start with using silk scarves, dont tie too tight incase the sub panics and wants to get out. if the sub is happy with being tied up introduce some furry handcuffs. from here you can make up any role play you want. let your imagination go wild.
if they really like being a sub and fancy a little whipping, maybe spank their ass or get a very soft whip. nothing hardcore like a cane! that would be too much. just use your imagination and have fun. also make sure that the sub has a "safe word" so if they get really uncomfortable they can let you know without you thinking it's just part of the roleplay.
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