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I just want to meet someone, settle, and have a family

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Question - (5 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Help!

Im 36 and on my own again. I just want to meet someone special and settle down and have a family.

I try to go out as often as possible, have joined clubs and tried the internet but still no-one I feel I like. I worry that I will never have this and get so down. I dont want a child on my own (donor/adoption - nor do I have the money to freeze my eggs). I just want to meet someone and have a child myself. I hav so many regrets about wasting so much time on previous relationships and now if feel everything is just too late.

What can I do to lift this feeling? I keep crying as I feel so anxious.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009):

thank you - Ive always had long realionships, one of 5 years who just wouldn't commit, and my last one of 2 years was just plain nasty with many problems that I just could not deal with anyone. I could go back thim but whats the point when I was so unhappy with him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009):

well...I'm just gonna ask you straight out: what happend between 20-29?! or even 17-32? anyway, if you give up now, there will really be no more hope, but if you keep yourself busy, make yourself attractive with help from friends, and make sure that you are a nice person, you will find that person for you. Just pray. Also many times, it's not you, it's them, so just remember that.

Ever tried talking to a marriage therapist to see why your last relationships didn't work out? In the mean time, focus on things you like doing. that's all I can say.

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (5 February 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt you shouldn't feel soo bad.. dont worry you're only 36

you'll find that special someone-perfect in every way..

juss put youself out there, make new fiends, go clubing more often, join a club or something

i just know its gonna happen for you

gudd luck

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