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I'm turned on by watching fat, unattractive men in porn videos, is this strange?

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Question - (5 February 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Any other girl with the same "fetish"? Thanks for answers.

Hay,

This question might sound a bit weird. I'm 19 and I recently found out that i have some kind of fetish about watching porn movies with older man having sex with younger girls(18-25). But they're not attractive, charming, nice men..The most excited porn films for me are where are men fatter, hairy, "stupid looking" and generally very unattractive! I still don't get why. I'd never be with a person like that, I always fell for slim, young, smart and quite attractive guys. I can't see reason why i like to watch a porn movies like that and then mastrubate. They really turned me on! Any ideas? Is this weird?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009):

Seems to me that u have a fetish. I have 3 fetishes myself. 1 I love women with sexy feet. I like sucking on their toes. 2 I love woman that are hairy. I don't mean with beards and moustaches! 3 I have a thing for chubby but sexy girls. Different strikes for different folks Honey.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009):

No. This is not weird. It is simply a fantasy. You know how you relate to men in the real world and choose who you want to be with. There are several things that turn me on sexually that make no sense whatsoever to my logical mind. It is harmless. Relax and be happy that you know what works for you.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntI sound like your perfect man! Ha ha!

But seriously, it's perfectly normal to have strange fantasies and it will pass.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2009):

i've been there myself. i couldn't understand it at all, as i actually go for guys in their 20's who usually have nice bodies and are great fun to be around. so an old man with a beer belly and a hairy back seemed an odd choice to be turned on by. then i thought maybe it's the fantasy of having someone to speak dirty to you and almost be abit dominating, such as telling you what to do and stuff. maybe it's because it's a taboo, dirty thing so the naughtyness of it turns you on. in reality the idea would repulse me. the thought of sleeping with a much older man (especially one with a fat belly and a hairy back) makes me shiver. lol. i'm kinda glad you have said you have this fantasy as i used to think i was the only one.

that fantasy dissapeared and then i started to enjoy watching gay porn. again no idea why.

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A female reader, Gemini1506 United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2009):

Don't worry about it, i agree with the abouve... its just a phase.. i went through a stage of wanting to meet old guys which got me (well more them into trouble). But it will pass

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009):

this is actually completeley natuarual. I used to like to watch bearded men with huge noses. Probably in a couple of months you will go through another phase.

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