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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:HiyaOn holiday last summer, I met this really lovely guy. Even though I haven't done much with guys before, I ended up going topless for him, which was completely out of character. Only thing is, he lives at the other end of the country to me. We talk on the phone for hours about every other week and he's told me he really loves me. We have phone sex and he might come to see me this summer, when I think he will expect me to have sex with him, as I am more confident and can talk dirty over the phone. However, sometimes weeks go by when he doesn't talk to me at all. When I bring this up, he accuses me of being insecure, but I miss him so much! We have an agreement where we can still see other people. I'm so confused! I love him but I hate it when we don't talk. Sometimes I want us to have sex when we see each other again but other times I don't. I also feel like he's stopping me from moving on a little and seeing other people (he's has a few gfs since we met) Should I break it off completely? Will it be unfair/cheating if I carry on talking to him if I get a bf? Should I have sex with him if we do meet up?Sorry for so many questions, but I'm so confused + worried!!Thanks xxx
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (7 February 2009):
 well first off, long distance relationships have a hard time of working out, sad but true. secound, if he has had gf while you guys were talking then shouldnt you be out getting yourself a bf. third, if you guys arnt really together then no you shouldnt have sex with him. my suggestion would be to move on, find someone you can actually be with.
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