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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There's this guy at school and he keeps on staring at me all the time. Sometimes with a small smile on his face and other times just a blank look. He also sometimes shows-off and flirts with other girls in front of me (he does it purposely). And there are days where he'll just walk up to me and be all touchy ... And when I'm finally sure that he likes me, he goes and ignore me for a day or two. Maybe even a week. And when he ignores me, he usually flirts with this one girl that he (supposedly, I'm not sure. When I asked him he said no) likes. But when he flirts with this girl, he's not really ... as sweet. I'm really confused about him. I don't know what to do anymore. =(And I've heard things about him. That he courted this girl for over a year and he probably still likes/loves her (they never got together and never will). Advice anyone?
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (5 February 2009):
 I think he do likes you, but he's too shy to show his feelings. Guys at his age are very confused about their emotionals, because all that seems so new and they're not really sure if they're in love or it's just a lust (or maybe at the moments they even hate the person because they're attracted to her so much).
Probably you're unconsciously playing hard to get and he thinks he has no chance to be with you. And he's doing the same, playing hard to get. When he has good day, he'd be sweet and nice, when he has bad day and he might feel that is not right to have such a feelings to you, he'd be rude and ignore you. Try to be more flirty, kind and open with him and than you'll see his reaction. He might surprise you on very nice way.
Do you like him? Maybe you can ask him if he'd go for a nice hot cocoa with you after school.
Good luck!
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