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writes:My boyfriend says that after a guy gets so used to masturbating..the first time after that, he cums faster. He says it gets a bit sensitive down there. Is this true? How can I help so that our first time is loooong lasting? Reply to this Question
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 It's frustrating as anything, imagine being brought to the point of orgasm and then him stopping and saying "no more"Oh is it your first time with him or are you talking about losing your virginity to him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGuys seriously how painful is it when you're left wanting some? You know to the point where you want to rip her clothes right off. And she says 'no'.
So, you have to finish things off on your own. :-(
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (6 February 2009):
 well its really hard to answer cause every guy is different...
but it is sensitive down there...juss do alot of foreplay,
and remember its your first time its not gonna be perfect,
and the more often you do it, hill last a little bit longer, but really dont think masterbating alot makes you cum faster when you first have sex..
well anyways, gudd luck, have fun and enjoy yourself
make him feel special
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (6 February 2009):
Your boyfriend is making excuses, if anything masturbating decreases sensitivity and would last longer, guys tend to cum faster than girls it's how we're designed. Back in caveman times you needed to get the job done quickly so you could carry on hunting... We're still cavemen deep down.
The average time for a guy to last is 3-5 minutes so the best thing is lots of foreplay for you and when you are almost ready then go for it.
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