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writes:i feel really messed up right now 'cause i'm in love with this other guy. he's the sweetest yet most annoying jerk i've ever met. he's usually loud, boastful and just plain stupid but i can't get him out of my mind. the thing is that wit me he's different, even if just a little. when he talks to me he's sweet and honest and i just feel that it just takes sometime to get to know him well. still, he's always making stupid jokes and pisses me off so dang much. i'm just totally confused...he's straight, big bummer, but thing is so am i (to the public at least). i've had a couple of girlfriends before and i've never been into guys. he's always flirting with girls and he's trying to get this girl in our class to go out with him. she likes him and i hate her! not really (well the part 'bout me hating her) she's actually a really nice person with who i'm moderately friends with. i do feel incredibly jealous when i see them together and i thank the heavens that they only flirt. the guy has this moments when he just stares at me for quite some time and i stare at him but always turn around 'cause i hate making him feel like i like him 'cause i don't know how he feels about me. he has told me more than once that i'm very good looking and at one time even told me that i was beautiful, which scared the crap out of me. i just took it as a joke and he did too and just laughed about it. i also remember this one time when i was sitting next to him and my and fell on his so i quickly moved it away and he told me to leave it where it was. he's constantly blowing kisses at me; he does it joking and we always laugh about it but it is still weird.the point is that i need to know what to do. should i tell him how i feel or just keep it to myself? i just feel that if i don't tell him i'll always have the doubt. but if i do how will he react if he doesn't like me? my school is extremely homophobic and so is my family. if they knew this i would be dead...
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reader, loving arms  +, writes (6 February 2009):
I would suggest you say nothing to him just yet. What i would do though is arrange evenings where either you stay other his house or he stays over yours( sleepvoers) If he really feels anything for you then somethnig might happen when you're alone together away from other friends. Just wait and see.
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (6 February 2009):
 just pull him aside friend to friend and tell him how you feel bro..' and if he's not into that, just to keep it to himself and not spread it around skool, if he's a good friend im sure he'll understand
gudd luck bro
only you know what you want
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