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male
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writes:I'm been dating my girlfriend for more than 7 years, and yes we have had our ups and donws, and 1 year ago we started living together but it didn't last long, it only last 3 months and then she move out, but we started dating after a while, and every time i ask her; when she would come back? she is not sure ans said nothing. Is this relationship taking me somewhere, is is worth it? I still love her but all these that we are- we are not together its driving me crazy Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (5 February 2009):
 It sounds like she's not very good at breaking up. I think this girl needs you to give her space so she can figure out her life and figure out if you're the right guy for her. 7 years is a long time and if she hasn't been able to live with you for more than 3 months, I'm seeing some commitment trouble on her part.
Sometimes space to breathe is the best way to get someone to come back to you for good. I think it'd be good for you to have some time on your own too. I think a long talk and perhaps a break is in order.
Good luck!
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reader, Miss Potter  +, writes (5 February 2009):
 Hello there,
I think you have to give her some space so that she can figure out for herself what she wants. It is obvious that you want to be with her but she has got her doubts that she needs to address herself. If you have some underlying issues you should definitely discuss them - why living together didnt work out, who/what is at fault. You have been dating/in a relationship for so long and you couldnt manage living together...maybe she has got some personal space/privacy kind of issues? At your age you dont really want to be wasting your time. Let her know what you want - start living together, eventually have a family see what she says to that, what she wants out of this relationship.
Good luck with everything and remember - communication is key to a successful relationship!
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