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*arethK
writes:I have been seeing a girl for approx 3 weeks, we found out last night that she is pregnant to her ex bf. It's been a whirlwind romance and i have very strong feeling for the girl. She has asked for time and space to decide how she is going to cope etc. I believe she will keep the baby as shes nearly 29. Do i walk away or stick it out?
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reader, GarethK +, writes (5 February 2009):
GarethK is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni understand that it has been a very short period of time. I can only go by what she has told me, i always trust somone until they give me a reason not to trust. I really care for the girl, i have become very close to her. her ex doesnt even know about the pregnancy as yet, nor her family. it's a difficult situation to be in as we both felt a real connection. i think that it may change with her now. I have a 5year old son for a long term relatiionship and had been sinlge over a year until we met. if i didnt care, i wouldnt feel this confused!
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reader, Ed1337 +, writes (5 February 2009):
 Give her some space, but I would consider walking away if she starts thinking about getting back together with her ex. I've learnt that the new guy never wins over the ex, especially if you've only been together for 3 weeks.
You never know, she may hate him and he might not want to raise a child.
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reader, glitter.grl  +, writes (5 February 2009):
hey stranger,
the girl might be rely disturbed right now. so if u rely love her b with her.
if u feel unconfortable about this thing speak to her about it. she may understand ur feelings.
hope u guyz stay 2gether
tc:
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009): Only you can decide. Step back and let her make her own decisions too. I don't think whirlwind romances are sheduled as a good long-term prospect at the best of times.
Personally, I'd walk. There's no way I could see myself being a father to another man's child, but that's just me. Lots of men out there can, but they're very special people in my opinion.
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