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writes: do any of you guys believe in NO SEX UNTIL MARRIAGE??sorry i kinda messed up in that other question...I meant to say if u guys believe in NO SEX UNTIL MARRIAGE....DO U THINK IT'S A LOAD OF BULL OR WHAT?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, audie +, writes (5 February 2009):
i'm personally saving myself but that doesnt mean you should do the same. when you have sex you are giving a part of yourself to the othr person- a part that you cant ever get back so its important to know why you are doing it. if you are totally ready for it then why not but i advise you wait so you know your partner is in it for good not jus 4 sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009): Going on the fact many folks seem to be having relationship problems.It may just be there is a minority laughing at their attempts at relationships based mainly around sex.I would say sex is the icing on the cake not the foundation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009): I don't think it's bull. I'm saving myself for marriage.
I am not a car or any other thing that could be bought and I don't view women as such either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009): I believe that people's certain religious preferences prevent them from having sex until they are married because that is what they believe is right. There is nothing wrong with having your own beliefs, and that certainly doesn't make it a "load of bull" if that's what you choose to believe in. Some people's morals and ethics and views of right and wrong differ from those of others. Personally, I am not religious, but spiritual, and I do believe that sex is something to be enjoyed, regardless of marital status. However, I would never knock someone for believing that they should not have sex before marriage. Everyone has a right to their own opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009): Let me ask you this.... Do you buy a car without test driving it??? NO! Then why would you get married to someone without test driving them??? LOL
I do not believe that you should wait until you are married to have sex! but then again, I guess it just depends on who you are and what you believe! Ive been married to my husband for six months, we had sex before we got married and had two kids as well! I think that it was better for us because we got to know eachother in a whole different way! We got to experience love together before we got married! what do you do if you wait to have sex until you are married and then you find out that your "husband" is really a woman... or that he likes to dress in womens panties or something creepy like that? I wouldnt wait... Test drive that car!!!! LOL
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