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My brother is going down on his girlfriend and he is only 13, what should I do?!?

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Question - (5 February 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello

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I have a brother. He is 13, and has a girlfriend. My aunt visited my mom so they decided to go shopping. I was told to watch my brother till she gets back. I told him I was just going to Super Saver for ingredients for dinner, and that I was going to be back in like 30-40 minutes. When I came back, I heard his girlfriend so I walked slowly to the living room. I saw Matthew(that's his name)licking his girlfriends vagina(both 13). I was shocked but I didn't know what to do. 2-3 minutes later, I decided to go outside and call the house. He shortly answered and I said I was going home soon. A while later I saw Marissa(his girlfriend's name)come out of the house running. I waited a few minutes and finally came in with the bags. He acted completely normal when I walked in, I prepared the food and started watching TV.

When my mom came home, I wanted to tell her about Marissa and Matthew's little games but I was afraid he would be angry at me and it might get her parents to stop seeing Matthew but Mom also said to make sure he doesn't do anything bad, and I don't want him repeating this, and doing things that they might regret.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009):

Wow, they are 13 thats crazy what kids are doing! stuff like that never crossed my mind till i was in 9th grade! i know i'm still too young but thats better then 13!

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (6 February 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt im really happy tro hear that...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009):

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THANKS!! I TALKED TO HIM AND HE SAID HE WON'T DO IT TILL HE IS OLDER, I EVEN THINK HE RESPECTS MORE, CUZ I DIDN'T TELL ON HIM.

THANKS!!! uluvme073 and Auntie Stoned!!!

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (6 February 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt yes i agree with "uluvme"

dont bring in the parents, if you were in his position how would you feel??

what you need to do is have a brother to brother tlk with him, tell him undertandingly that what he's doing is wrong,

hes not rready for that yet.make sure he undeerstands the risks....he'll here you out, he probly looks up to you and feel closer to you knowing that you wont rat him out

but he does continue beying sexualy active, then its time to bring in the parents' gudd luck and keep us posted

(i wish i had an older bother)

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A female reader, uluvme0723 United States +, writes (5 February 2009):

uluvme0723 agony auntWow. I bet you were shocked. But me, I wouldn't tell my parents. I would sit down and have a talk with him. Let him know what he's doing isn't appropriate. And then if he ignores you. Then you bring in the parents.

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A female reader, Auntie Stoned  United States +, writes (5 February 2009):

Tell your mom and her mom. 13 years olds are too young to understand and engage in sex. They should concentrate on school not sex. Inform the parents before somebody get pregnant. You are doing your brother, your parents and her parents favours for letting them in on what had happened. Ten years from now your brother will thank you for saving him from early fatherhood and his future.

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