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Pretending to be the ex during sex?

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Question - (5 February 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

What do you think about a husband asking his wife to play like he is her ex, while they are having sex?

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A female reader, misfitschik66 Canada +, writes (9 February 2009):

misfitschik66 agony aunthmm sorry for the last post but it could go both ways as he wants to pretend he is your ex... that is a little twisted you have to ask your self why?

maybe he is wanting to see if you like it better?

im not sure really but its not right i would never want my boyfriend to pretend to be my ex no matter how much i love my ex ive moved on and i chose not to have sex with him anymore the day i left him

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A female reader, misfitschik66 Canada +, writes (9 February 2009):

misfitschik66 agony auntNever in a million years would i EVER preform sex on my boyfriend acting like his ex and IF he ever asked me to id probably brake down and cry it would be over automaticly

like another poster said the past is the past why go back?

there was obviously something wrong in the relationship to make them brake up

even if the sex WAS good it also leaves at that when the relationship is over

either this person has issues with the past or has not moved on from this person to even think about this scenario

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A male reader, relly United States +, writes (9 February 2009):

My girlfriend and I sometimes do this...

If he's like me, he's intrigued by your past and for some reason wants to know details. It's a weird role-playing fantasy. Have a couple cocktails and run with it, if you're up to it.

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A female reader, KickRox United States +, writes (5 February 2009):

KickRox agony auntWeirdo! The past is the past. Why would you want to pretend like you're having sex with an ex rather than your current boyfriend/husband?!? Yuk!

And that's why the ex is no longer in the picture.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntSeems a little twisted to me!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009):

Folks! HE is (or wants to play as) his girlfriend's ex

(not SHE play as her boyfriend's ex)!

Please read again?

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A female reader, Jmo United States +, writes (5 February 2009):

Jmo agony auntHa! If my boyfriend asked me to act like his ex during sex, I'd act like a stuck-up bitch, because that's what she was. Seriously though, what does acting like one's ex entail exactly?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009):

Well I don't think that it's right!! Ask him to pretend to be your ex...and let him see how that feels.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2009):

i think it is disgusting! he obviously likes to believe he is having sex with his ex. he needs a good kick up the arse and out of the bed if you ask me.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2009):

I think the husband probably has a big red hand print on his face by now, and if he doesn't then it's never too late to give him one.

Good Luck!! xx

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