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Strange circumstances and I'm pregnant, should I tell the boyfriend?

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Question - (5 February 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2009)
A female India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Last week i and my boy friend went to a party where i was given a soft drink and i fell unconsious and the next morning when i woke up i found my self on my boy friends bed. on that day we broke up and are'nt

speaking to each other but since two three days i was not well and was feeling dizzy and having vomiting sensation. i got my self tested and found out im pregnant .Should i tell him?

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (8 February 2009):

tux agony auntChances are that you were pregnant before the party. As far as the party goes.. one does not simply drink a soda and go unconscious without either being drugged or having some sort of diabetic reaction. I'd say most likely it was the first, especially considering that your "boyfriend" decided to dump you right afterwards. Sorry to say this, but I think you shouldn't try to talk to him, but like it has been said.. talk to the authorities.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009):

aside from the being drugged issue, there's no point in telling someone they got you pregnant and creating chaos until you confirm that you are pregnant through a pregnancy test or doctor. If you were drugged and your boyfriend raped you, then you contact the police.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009):

I don't see how you could be experiencing pregnancy symptoms after just a week. You may have been pregnant before the party. Either way, you should make sure and get tested for anything else that you may have contracted while you were out of it.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (5 February 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntSounds like you were drugged if you fell unconscious, instead of talking to your ex boyfriend you should be talking to the police.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (5 February 2009):

Honeypie agony auntYou might be pregnant. Though I don't know of anyone who fell unconscious after 1 soft drink. I find that part pretty scary. Do you remember nothing from that day?

There is a lot more to this story, I can tell.

If you think you are pregnant you better find out sooner rather then later. Take an over the counter test. If it shows up negative and you are still thinking you are pregnant go to your doctor and have a blood test done.

And yes if you are pregnant he has a right to know, whether you want to keep it or not.

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